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What Celia and Sue have gone through should never have happened. Equality should mean just
that.

Sandi Toksvig
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Thanks for your struggle - I do believe that it's very important for homosexuals
worldwide. The more countries legalize same-sex marriage the more difficult it'll be for
Russian authorities to ignore rights of Russian gays and lesbians. I wish you the best and
hope you will win.
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Katherine Marsova,
Editor Russian Queerumir.ru
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The Equal Marriage BRights campaign adds the voices of brights to the clamour for equality
in the civic treatment of sexuality.
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Press for Change, which works for the rights of transgender people and transsexual people,
fully supports Celia Kitzinger and Sue Wilkinson's claim to have their legal
Canadian marriage recognised in the UK, just as the UK recognises other Canadian
marriages. We positively welcome any move towards accepting and valuing same-sex
partnerships through the institution of marriage. Many trans people still retain the happy
marriage they have with the person they met when they were once the opposite sex. These
couples have often gone through hell and back to work out how to keep a happy marriage
despite the 'change of sex' of one of the partners. Now, as one spouse applies for his or
her legal gender recognition, these same happy couples are being asked to end their
married bliss because it is a 'same sex' marriage. Where else and for what reason
does the law demand that people divorce to get their human rights? There are many
married trans people crossing their fingers and hoping for what would be a right and just
recognition of Celia and Sue's marriage. It would be one step towards enabling
them to retain their own happy marriages.
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Professor Stephen Whittle
Vice-President, Press for Change
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Just as civil partnership should be available to opposite-sex couples, marriage should be
available to same-sex couples. Any segregation on the grounds of sex or sexuality is
odious, irrational and means our supposedly liberal society fails to treat its citizens
equally.
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Bethan Ingram
Founder of the Equal Partnership Campaign
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I give my support to this call for recognition of this same-sex marriage. It makes
no sense if we erect borders to equality. Indeed mutual recognition is
vital if we are to ensure the free movement of people without discrimination
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Michael Cashman, Member of the European Parliament for the West Midlands
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Marriage is about two people who love each other and want to share their lives with one
another, regardless of their sexual orientation. Same-sex couples should be given the same
recognition under law as every other loving committed couple. Anything less is inequality
under the law.
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Human Rights Campaign, the largest advocacy organization for gay,
lesbian, bisexual and transgender people in the United States.
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As part of its campaigns for human rights, equality, and against religious privilege, the
British Humanist Association has always advocated total equality for people of all sexual
orientations. We campaigned for the straightforward, logical and equitable step of
allowing same-sex marriages in preference to civil partnerships, because it seemed the
only equitable reform, and because so much opposition was faith-based.
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Andrew Copson, British Humanist Association
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In 2005, the American Psychiatric Association resolved to support "the legal
recognition of same-sex civil marriage with all rights, benefits, and responsibilities
conferred by civil marriage, and opposes restrictions to those same rights, benefits, and
responsibilities" .Support
of Legal Recognition of Same-Sex Civil Marriage POSITION STATEMENT.
The APA believes that marriage is associated with unique set of benefits that provide
legal and economic protections to adults in committed relationships and to their children.
However, same-sex couples experience several kinds of state-sanctioned
discrimination that can adversely affect the stability of their relationships and their
mental health. Therefore, equal access to the institution of civil
marriage is consistent with the APA's opposition, since 1974, to any discrimination
based on sexual orientation.
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Jack Drescher, MD, Past Chair
(2000-2006) American Psychiatric Association Committee on Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual Issues
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The Green Party has a deep commitment to equality and human rights. Discrimination based
on innate characteristics like sexual orientation, race and gender are particularly
offensive in a civilised society. In post-apartheid South Africa, it would have been
unthinkable to create an institution of Civil Partnerships solely for mixed race couples,
with the parallel and more prestigious institution of marriage reserved for same race
couples. If the courts are unable or unwilling to interpret legislation to enable
this recognition, the Green Party will campaign for a change in the law, to ensure the
fundamental human right of marriage is available to all - regardless of sexual orientation
or gender. ... We wish Celia and Sue the very best of luck in their challenge..
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Nigel Tart, Green Party
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The Lesbian and Gay Psychology Section of the British Psychological Society support Sue
and Celia's case to get their marriage legally recognised. We agree with the resolution by
the American Psychological Association (APA) which argues that laws against same-sex
marriage are a form of discrimination based on sexual orientation. The Civil
Partnerships Act still does not place lesbian, gay, bisexual or trans citizens in 'same
sex' relationships in a position of equity with people in 'opposite sex' relationships. We
do not recognize the restriction of marriage rights as valid or defensible on
psychological or other grounds and wish Celia and Sue all the best in their courageous
challenge.
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Committee of the Lesbian and Gay Psychology Section
of the British Psychological Society
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The Metropolitan Community Church (MCC) is a Christian church founded in the late 1960s to
offer a church home, primarily but not exclusively, to lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and
transgendered folks. MCC is the largest lesbian/ gay/ bisexual/ transgendered
organisation in the world with around 300 congregations in 17 different countries. MCC
sees marriage as a permanent and faithful relationship between two people, blessed by God
and recognised by the State as well as the couple's family and friends. We make no
distinction between the marriage of same or opposite sex couples. We believe that
the Christian understanding of both marriage and humanity supports our commitment to equal
access to marriage for both same-sex and different-sex couples. We support Celia and
Sue in their case for recognition of their marriage in the UK.
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The Rev Andy Braunston
Pastor, Metropolitan Community Church of Manchester
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We understand marriage to be a gift and blessing from God - a creative relationship in
which God's blessing enables a couple to love and support each other. With the
recognition of same-sex marriage, the dignity of committed same-sex relationships will be
fully affirmed. To exchange marriage vows before God would remove the undermining
sense of second best that pertains with civil partnership. As evangelical
Christians, we support Sue Wilkinson and Celia Kitzinger's request for their legal
same-sex Canadian marriage to be recognised as a marriage in the UK.
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Evangelical Fellowship for Lesbian and Gay
Christians
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Marriage Equality USA applauds Sue Wilkinson and Celia Kitzinger as they stand up for
their relationship and the right to have their marriage recognized. Same-sex couples in
the UK and the USA like Sue and Celia who have been married in Canada, the Netherlands,
Spain, and Belgium are still subject to discriminatory marriage laws when they return
home. Treating same-sex couples as second-class citizens is wrong. This discrimination
must end! We join in solidarity with their struggle which mirrors the battle we are
fighting to end marriage discrimination in the USA.
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Davina
Kotulski, Ph.D.
Executive Director of Marriage Equality USA
Author of Why You Should Give A Damn About Gay Marriage
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I strongly support Celia Kitzinger and Sue Wilkinson in their efforts to bring this
country into the twenty-first century. We've already got a civil partnership law; to
argue over what is really a semantic point - that is, balking at the word 'marriage'
- is really absurd. We want true equality for gay people and this would
be an important step towards it.
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Claire Rayner
Writer, broadcaster, health campaigner and the UK's best known agony aunt
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Couples like Sue and Celia who are doing the hard work of marriage in their lives, who are
contributing to the community and caring for one another, who have joined in marriage in
Canada or anywhere else, deserve to see their committed union, their marriage, treated
with respect. One of the main protections that comes with marriage is the word marriage --
and the security and clarity it brings. Sue and Celia are entitled to the legal commitment
that matches their personal commitment, and that commitment is called marriage. The state
should accord them equality under the law -- the same rules, the same responsibilities,
and the same respect.
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Evan Wolfson
Executive Director of Freedom to Marry
www.freedomtomarry.org
and author of Why Marriage Matters
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OutRage! fully supports Sue and Celias position. This is a historic challenge to a
grave injustice. It is the first step towards overturning the ban on same-sex marriage in
Britain. The government has created a system of sexual apartheid where gays are banned
from marriage and straights are banned from civil partnerships. This two-tiered
system of partnership law is not equality it perpetuates and extends
discrimination. There should be one law for everyone. Equality means opening up civil
marriage to lesbian and gay partners, and making civil partnerships available to
heterosexual couples.
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We welcome the Governments broad commitment to the principle of equal treatment
without discrimination on grounds of sexual orientation, but point out that this can be
fully achieved only by opening marriage to all. Placing restrictions on the respective sex
of the partners is as abhorrent as, say, placing restrictions on the respective race of
the partners. Rapidly growing international acceptance of this principle means there is no
longer any need to introduce yet another "registered partnership" scheme as an
ersatz form of marriage.
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Peter Tatchell, OutRage!
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Gay and Lesbian Humanist Association
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We offer our unreserved support for Sue Wilkinson and Celia Kitzinger in their legal
challenge to have their marriage, performed in Canada, recognised in the United Kingdom.
Egale Canada was founded in 1986 to advance equality and justice for lesbian, gay,
bisexual and trans-identified people, and their families, across Canada. Our organisation
believes that the right of same-sex couples to have access to the civil institution of
marriage is a fundamental equality right supported by the principles of human rights.
Courts in Canada, and in Massachusetts and South Africa, have found that denying same-sex
couples the equal right to marry is contrary to the principles of human rights and there
is no reasonable basis for this discrimination. Equal human rights is not a limited-size
blanket; it has the capacity to expand in order to cover more people and in so doing
becomes stronger. Egale Canada wishes Sue Wilkinson and Celia Kitzinger all the best in
their endeavour. Their legal battle is about fairness, justice and equality.
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Gilles Marchildon, Executive Director, Egale Canada

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Our hearts are with our U.K. sisters and brothers as they continue their struggle for full
and equal rights as citizens. Although we applaud the extension of rights to those who
were previously disadvantaged in the U.K., civil partnerships are not the answer to the
discrimination we face. When they offered as a choice to any couple, civil partnerships
are acceptable. But when they are offered only to same-sex couples and in place of
marriage, they are nothing more than an attempt to perpetuate a social policy of
segregation.
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Kevin
Bourassa and Joe Varnell
Equal Marriage for Same-Sex Couples, Canada
Authors of Just Married:
Gay Marriage & the Expansion of Human Rights
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Why did you feel sad when you were a child and your friends left you out of their game?
Why does it hurt when you don't get invited to a party that everyone else is going to? Why
does it make you angry when someone gets a promotion over you that seems unfair? I am a 21
year old lesbian with no intention of getting married. Many of my heterosexual friends are
also not planning weddings for the near or far future. But it's different for me. For them
it's a choice, whether political or not, based on their relationships or based on their
principles. They are empowered by the fact that they have a right which I am denied.
Marriage is, at the end of the day, the game I'm left out of, the party I'm not invited
to, the job I deserved and wasn't given. I don't want to live in a world in which people
are given different opportunities and rights based on discrimination of one sort or
another. I also don't like being discriminated against. It doesn't feel nice. It's about
equality. Equal marriage is symbolic. I don't want to be a second class citizen anymore.
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Rose Rickford LGBT Officer University of York Student Union
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The Loughborough Students' Union LGBT Association believes that Civil Partnerships
intensify the inequality between heterosexuals and LGB people. LGB people form loving
relationships in exactly the same way as our heterosexual counterparts. Love is not
limited by the gender of the person with whom a relationship is entered into, and so it is
only right that a lesbian or gay couple should be able to marry in exactly the same way as
heterosexuals. As long as marriage is not available to same-sex couples, discrimination
and inequality continue to exist. The LSU-LGBTA therefore publicly calls for an end to
this inequality, and believes that same-sex couples should be granted the right to marry
in the United Kingdom. In line with this policy, we fully support Sue and Celia in their
legal case to have their Canadian marriage recognised as a marriage in the UK.
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Babak Erfani
Chairman
Loughborough Students' Union LGBT Association
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The NSS supports Celia Kitzinger and Sue Wilkinson's case, and condemns the UK
Government's refusal to recognise same sex couples' valid marriages as shamefully
prejudiced and discriminatory. It is now the principal discrimination remaining in
law against homosexuals and the Government has yet satisfactorily to explain why it
settled for the "some are more equal than others" expedient of civil partnership
exclusively for same-sex couples to whom full civil marriage is denied. We suspect
the motive to be appeasement of religious leaders. There seems no other plausible
explanation for its reluctance, given the much fairer and legislatively easier alternative
of opening up marriage to same-sex couples.
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Keith Porteous Wood FCCA, Executive Director,
National Secular Society
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As LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered) Christians, we would like to offer
Celia Kitzinger and Sue Wilkinson our support in their campaign to get their marriage
recognised in the UK. We accept that some gay couples may prefer civil partnerships to
marriage, as some straight couples choose civil weddings. Marriage includes vows of
fidelity and permanence made in front of friends, family and, for some, God. Christians
should support such stable, faithful and loving relationships, rather than insulting and
degrading them, as the spokesman for the Evangelical Alliance did. We hope that Celia and
Sue's campaign will be an inspiration to many.
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Elizabeth Allison, Martin Bailey, Martin Carr, Jamie Carter, Chris Dicken and others,
Members of Young LGBT Christians, Rickmansworth, Herts
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Thank you so much for coming to
talk and remind us of the terrible discrimination that still goes on. To be so eloquent,
honest and open at what you have faced is a feat. Keep up the good work, you are an
inspiration.
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Jenny, NUS LGBT Conference
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My partner and I (both Canadian citizens) were married in Victoria,
B.C. on Mar. 6th, 2005. It was particularly joyous and meaningful to be married in my
sister's front room, surrounded by family, friends and photos of those who were certainly
there in spirit (including my mum and dad). We are currently studying in the UK but will
soon return to Canada comforted by the notion that our union will be recognized for what
it is - marriage - in our home country. I wish you every success with your fight; I hope
sexual minorities throughout the United Kingdom recognize the importance of your stance
and your actions. Thanks for your courage and conviction.
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Michael Reed & Richard Saucier
University of York
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As a psychiatrist in the USA, where same-sex marriage is
only available in one state (Massachusetts), and where legislative bans on it are
proliferating, I strongly support Sue and Celia's efforts to have their marriage
recognised in the UK. LGBT couples deserve marriage on exactly the same basis as
heterosexual couples. Marriage is good for couples, good for society, and good for mental
health.
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Nanette Gartrell, MD.
Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry in the Center of Excellence in Women's Health,
University of California at San Francisco.
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As a committed Christian I believe that all are equal in the
eyes of God, that we do not have the right to be judgmental or discriminatory towards our
fellow beings and that same-sex couples can fully demonstrate the love of God in their
relationships. I know of many same-sex couples who have been together longer than
opposite-sex couples and contribute to the stability of society and the long-term care of
children. They deserve proper recognition by our society and our church. I have been
married for 36 years and cannot comprehend that my marriage or that of others, will be in
any way downgraded or made meaningless by the winning of a court case to promote equality
for lesbian and gay couples! Good luck to you.
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Margaret Evans, Worcestershire, England
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I have been following the case on the internet and wanted to
extend to you my best wishes for success in your case and my thanks to you for mounting
this challenge to the government on this issue. My partner and I have been
together 19 years and have a daughter who is 8. Whilst we wish to have equal
legal and financial status it sticks in my throat to accept a CP which feels like
participating in a sexual orientation apartheid system." Yours in solidarity,
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Mel Wraight, Nottingham UK
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Six months and a day since coming into force, the CPA already finds itself before the
courts on a charge of human rights violation. Unsurprising, because the Bill
was inherently discriminatory right from the start. Equality does not reside
in half-way houses. There can be no excuse for denying marriage to same-sex couples.
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Stephen Harrison, UK
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I am a UK citizen living in Canada, and have been legally married to my same sex partner
for the past three years of our 22 year relationship. Our marriage means so much to us.
We are both eternally grateful to the gay and lesbian pioneers who led the way for
us, and many couples like us, to be finally accepted as equals in society. I've
never had the chance to write to any of them before, but now I can. I just want to take
the opportunity to wish you all the luck in the world, to thank you from the bottom of my
heart, and to let you know that what you're doing is appreciated more than you can
possibly imagine. Without true pioneers like yourselves we'd still all be living in the
back of our closets. I'll be following your court case in the press. My fingers,
arms, toes and legs will be crossed for you both, and I'll be looking forward to shedding
many tears of happiness when you win.
Bless you both.
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Alan Soden, Canada
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We are a Christian couple who became civil partners at the end of last year, and we were
surprised by how emotional it was to have our relationship legally recognised.
However legal rights alone do not express the core of our relationship, which is
fundamentally about being bound together spiritually and emotionally. Public vows of
love, permanence and fidelity; a ceremony where we could rejoice in our relationship
before God, our families and friends; and a celebration - which we saw as key parts of the
transition from singleness to commitment - are not a necessary part of Civil
Partnerships. We fully support Celia and Sue's case for their marriage to be
recognised as such in the UK.
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Rachel Holt and Sarah Hagger
Rickmansworth, Herts
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We read this morning about your fight to have your marriage recognised in this country,
and wanted to send you our very best wishes. We're constantly amazed at the way in
which bigotry and sheer lack of common sense combine to keep same-sex couples from having
the same rights as male-female couples, and would very much welcome legal parity for all.
We hope to read of your victory in court sooner rather than later.
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Karen Abbott & Tom Murphy
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I want to wish you and Sue the very best in getting your marriage recognised in this
country. Being a straight male I have no particular axe to grind but am constantly
saddened by the double standards that apply to lesbian and gay people in this country. The
spurious argument of Don Horrocks, head of public affairs at the Evangelical Alliance,
(Observer 28 May 2006) only served to make me sadder and angrier. So I hope you get the
verdict that you and thousands of others deserve.
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Pete Thomas, University of Central Lancashire
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Although I am entering a Civil Partnership later this year, and am glad to be able to do
so under the new legislation, I wish I had the opportunity to marry instead. The
government claims that Civil Partnership is marriage in all but name, however, the two do
not share the same social status. In announcing the news of our pending civil partnership
we have had mixed responses from family and friends - many have not so much as
congratulated us, few have acknowledged our engagement with cards or gifts, and even my
mother said that she "would not recognise it as a marriage". I just don't feel
like we are being taken seriously. If we had been given the opportunity to marry, what we
are doing would be recognised and understood by others as being the same as a heterosexual
marriage. To set up a system whereby same-sex couples are denied access to the widely
understood and socially validated institution of marriage and offered instead a separate
institution is, in effect, apartheid. Institutionalising difference in this way not only
implies that same-sex couples are inferior to heterosexual ones, but legitimates
discrimination against us.
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Sonja Ellis
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